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1. Swinging Journey posts are sequential and numbered to help you follow our story chronologically.
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Idquest
Jan 9, 20232 min read
Advice - The deal with beards
Think for a minute about just how complex a job it is to find a couple who match your desires. You want something, your husband wants...
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Idquest
Feb 23, 20213 min read
Advice - Beat the House Party Anxiety!
The time will come in your swinging career when, out of the blue, you’ll get an invite to a house party. What’s a house party you ask? A...
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Idquest
Dec 9, 20203 min read
Advice – Those Sexy Black Stripes!
We don’t show our faces to just anyone who claims to be a swinger. We find that the pressure is high to show faces early in an online...
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Idquest
Dec 4, 20204 min read
Advice – Single Guy? Get your message above the cut line!
In our last advice post, in which I discussed how swinging women were like and unlike their vanilla counterparts, we covered how,...
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Idquest
Dec 2, 20203 min read
Advice – Single Guys and Sexy Hot Wives!
It's a almost a myth. As a single guy you usually have one thing on your mind, how to get laid! You want it as soon as possible, as often...
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Idquest
Nov 10, 20204 min read
Advice – That First Couple
Our first time to soft swap and to full swap were with the same couple. I know that for me, entire experience was easier in that we felt...
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Idquest
Oct 30, 20205 min read
Advice – Spaghetti Sexual
Courtney here again… hope you guys don’t mind. There’s lots of talk about sexuality in the swinging community nowadays, especially in...
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Idquest
Oct 26, 20205 min read
Advice – Let’s talk about Dick!
So, Alex has me writing this which is an embarrassing and weird experience. But, I’m infinitely more qualified than Alex to talk about...
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Idquest
Sep 18, 20204 min read
Advice – Know Thy Self!
One of the things that seems to come up often when we chat with newbie swingers is the impact of being surprised at their own reactions....
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Idquest
Sep 14, 20203 min read
Advice – It’s a Sporting Event!
In the swinging world you meet lots of folks and they each go about swinging differently. They each have different likes and dislikes,...
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Idquest
Jul 3, 20203 min read
Advice – Playing with the Dynamics
Well, I guess we first need to define what we mean by swinging dynamics. For us, a swinging event is full of energy. Not that new age,...
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Idquest
May 30, 20202 min read
Advice – The Big Insertion
The first time a couple sees each other playing is memorable in both exciting and nerve-wracking ways. First off, on the good side,...
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Idquest
May 25, 20203 min read
Advice – Single Guys and the Swinging Website
As a single guy cruising on swinging websites, you really have the cards stacked against you. Swinging sites are not dating sites. ...
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Idquest
May 24, 20203 min read
Advice – Let’s be Clear!
So, you are chatting with a sexy couple or single and the question comes out, it always does, “what are you guys into?” Warning! This...
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Idquest
May 23, 20203 min read
Advice – Watching out for #1!
We all get super involved in what we’re doing during a meet and can lose sight of #1! By #1, I mean your partner not yourself! If you...
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Idquest
May 12, 20202 min read
Advice – Playing With The Swinging Fantasy
You have this fantasy about swinging. Maybe it’s about meeting other couples for blistering hot play or it might be about adding a single...
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Idquest
May 9, 20203 min read
Advice – I Want To Swing!
So, you wake up one day and have the sudden urge to push the boundaries of your sexual experience. Or, you wake up one day and realized...
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Idquest
May 2, 20203 min read
Advice – Social Success = Location, Location, Location!
So, you’ve found a nice couple online, you’ve chatted a bit via the site and now you want to take it to the next level. We in the...
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Idquest
May 2, 20202 min read
Advice – One Rule to Rule Them All!
We’ve gone through multiple iterations of rules during our swinging journey and have found that there is one cardinal principal that, if...
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Idquest
May 2, 20202 min read
Advice - Swinging for Christians?
Can swinging be compatible with your faith? What about that, thou shalt not commit adultery, commandment? What about all the Victorian...
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Idquest
May 2, 20202 min read
Advice – Breaking the Ice with Dice!
We’ve found that with new couples, and for us when we were new, breaking the initial ice was difficult and sometimes awkward. There comes...
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